I say take it slow. Has she called you at all or just responds to your calls?

In my case, I would say that I was overthinking and being hopeful of something happening when it probably isn't.

Take it easy and take care of you-let it fall where it may. I think the db principles still apply.

Me-36
W-36, waw, mlc and ea.
Together 17 yrs
Married 16 yrs
Bomb 12/21/06
Asked about counseling together 8.07
doesn't believe in what i believe in and doesn't know how to fix this 11.07
Demanded we sell the house 2.08
Admitted affair 4.08