I don't have any really strong answers, but what strikes me is that she didn't tell you why she wants the $2000.
Be fair, rise above the pettyness and expect the same in return. This is an awful thing you are going thru, but you have to stand up for you-no one else is and she isn't going to cut you any slack.
Me-36 W-36, waw, mlc and ea. Together 17 yrs Married 16 yrs Bomb 12/21/06 Asked about counseling together 8.07 doesn't believe in what i believe in and doesn't know how to fix this 11.07 Demanded we sell the house 2.08 Admitted affair 4.08