Yep, I agree with GF and Michelle. BUT it's much easier said than done. Figure out a way to ensure you'll be able to act as if in his presence (and when you figure out the trick, let me know - I'm not having an easy time of it!).

Good luck with everything.

M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence