this is maryangela -- have to start new thread

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Well, his guilt is separate but maybe that plays into it. Basically, in my sitch, my H and I have a very strong physical attraction to each other. Our sex life hasn't ever really been a problem. Between bomb and separation, we ML even more and "better" than ever. I think he was so confused that on one hand he was quite unhappy yet still was attracted to me. So then he decided to turn off the physical to focus on the emotional without clouding things up with sex.