I agree. Powerful and it's EXACTLY what your wife needs to hear. I just gave my H the same verbal type speech this morning. You keep in contact with your "friend" any longer... ANY contact what so ever... then you can kiss me being your best friend EVER. You'll be deemed to have made your choice. CASE closed.
(we're separating so we can reboot... friends... best friends... and where it goes from there.)... Either he has to make the effort to work on the friendship (aka marriage)... the way it it deserves to be worked at ... and with the effort it requires)... or we just simply stop the bs now and get on with our lives.
Powerful... he responded well to it.... assured me that he has NO intentions of having contact with her ... and now is FULLY aware of the consequences should he be so stupid as to renege on it.
Your wife needs to hear/see/be read the same riot act.
High Five! Abbey
Last edited by Abbey; 04/07/0808:20 PM.
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
