Baby kicked for the first time this morning!! I had gotten up before my W as usual, did a few bits, then went to wake her up, and get into bed with her for a few minutes, as usual. She took my hand and placed it on her belly and asked if I could feel anything (she thought she was constipated) Then I felt it!! That was great!!!
This is tough Lanzo, I have always felt the toughness more when we are getting along well, as I am ready to then take another step, but she is not. Like I cant see a reason for mot moving along.
HI Rob, I guess your advice does make sense, and there is nothing I can do to speed up the process for her. I have just let her know that she has a `green light` for whenever she is ready. Just hope it is not too long!
This is a time probably to really keep working on making myself attractive to her. That is the only way I can speed things up... appealing to her biological nature! lol We watched `300` the other day. I commented that if I had a body like those spartans she would have no problem kissing me! She said `oh yeah!`lol Gym 7 days a week here I come!!!
I think I shoud stop looking at the sitch as wanting to kiss my W and being a bit miffed that I cant, because for some reason I feel as though I should be allowed to. I should start looking at it as if we were just first dating again. I wasnt `allowed` to kiss her then I had to work the magic to `earn` that first kiss. Might be time to dust off my old `moves` (if I actaully had any!lol). Back to courting!
Hi onelight
I LOVED that analogy. I did make sense, and it also made me smile alot. Put a few naughty thoughts in mind! Dont know about using that technique for getting her back, I am thinking to use that technique for an `early night` after I have got her back!!
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You are now rubbing her ears, you stroke the bridge of her nose, you are speaking softly. As you are doing this (she is calm and distracted) you slip the reigns around her neck. You bring the bridle up over her face. You put the bit to her mouth. She violently shakes her head. You do not let go of the reigns. You calm her down. You re-introduce the bit. This time she takes it. You secure the bridle over her head. You now have her by the reigns.
Oh yes!lol!!!
OK OK OK, before all the ladies here descend on me.... I am just joking!!!!!
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we could refer to OM as "The Jackass" trying to make a Mule
Not following that Kerry.
Saffie, really good to see you!
W called me at work today, said she was worried about me, wanted to know how things were with my Dad. We talked a bit about work, we had a laugh together, I asked if the baby had kicked anymore. Just a nice chat.
Good day, except for my growing frustration!
Cheers
Steve
PS my sister is into horse big time too. She got some kind of rosette yesterday for some kind of jumping! Can you tell I am not a horse guy!
Last edited by steve477; 04/07/0808:00 PM.
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.