same here, it's not about being bitter it is about risking getting "those" feelings back: familiarity, then the false sense that it's all ok...which is NOT. I dont' want to be cruel nor cold, but in order to detach from the man I thought I'd never leave I have to, for my own sake, to distance myself. I rather not know details of his life, which I know include ow despite his denials, (um, at least take off her parking permit when you come for kids!!!).
Acquaintance is the right word, keep them at arms lenght. Yes, maybe in many years I might be able to use the word "friend" ...but very loosely.
Hugs Monica))))))) I know you hanged on for very very long, I'm over at the other D board since I have shut the door completely, since he has made it clear he is way over our M and R.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
