Looking inside ourselves is the key to accepting the situation. I still firmly believe my H blew things out of proportion, didn't honor his vows by not sharing his pain with me and is overreacting BUT his issues are not without merit. I've found some flaws within myself that I want to change because of this. I will be a better person.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.