Why Can't I DB the right way??

[water2moon]

I just mentioned this DB and he says its a terrible inconvenience.And she can still reach him at his job if she really wanted to.But I'm a little upset about this because I wish he would have asked me what I thought before he called her and there was no hesistation. He heard her crying and just called right away. So what if it happens again?? He says he wont call back but who knows..And I realize that I can't stop it if he does want to reach her. Just that it's unfortunate that is till can't have any peace of mind. When will this end already??