I know it's wrong and there's a breaking of vows, etc.... but, I do think there is value in honesty.

I suppose the only way to have avoided the whole "affair" thing... was if she had filed for divorce and then taken up the relationship once the D was final. For whatever reason... she wasn't willing to go that far....

BTW, Soul mate, I looked over your sitch and I think you are doing remarkably well. Good mental state.... Although I think anyone who reads Kierkegaard would... ;\)



Last edited by runningoutoftime; 04/07/08 06:44 PM.
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