Well, that didn't take too long for her to cave. I just received this reply from her to my note I sent her this morning.
Hope4us,
There are too many issues in your letter for me to address at the moment. But for now, I want you to know that I haven't seen OM since last year nor do I have any plans or intentions of seeing him. Whether you want to believe that or not is up to you, but it is the truth. I would like to continue this marriage until DS15 graduates and I will try to repair the damage that's been done to them. If we're at a point at that time that we know it's not working, then we can part and go our separate ways.
I know it's going to be difficult and there are a lot of trust issues involved. There are things we both need to change in order to move on and I hope you will consider this, not so much for me, but for the kids' sake.
WW.
Ok, what's everyone think? I'm thinking I need to lay this out on the line. I will agree to stay together for the next 2 years IF she truly intends on working on the marriage. If she agrees to that, here are my conditions: No Contact period, Complete transparency, Retro weekend or similiar.
How's that for starters?
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
