Maybe my timeline will be a good thing. I didn't ever set one before because I didn't feel like it was right. I felt like I would know when I was done. Now I feel like this could drag on forever the way it is and I am not willing to live my life like that.
The problem with the car is that my name is on it too. I am kind of obsessive when it comes to paying bills...and have never paid a bill late. I am not willing to ruin my credit to teach H a lesson. If it was in his name only then I wouldn't say a word...just like I haven't about his credit cards. I am thinking maybe I will wait until the last minute and if he hasn't paid it I will pay it and then call him and tell him we have to sell it. ...Although I can already see the outcome of that...he will tell me he promises he will pay it next month and I will probably give in.
