How's this for a timely response, I really didn't think that I haven't been around since January!
I do check in on all of you fairly frequently, & actually follow some of the new posters as well.
My father died a few weeks ago & as many know, not a lot else is done during/after that time.
I'm coming up on a year in my sitch w/ my H mostly "inching" back literally. I finally called him on his duplicity with the OW, & since then (a month ago), he has pretty completely backed off me & gone (or stayed) in her direction.
I've started dating someone I like, but it mostly feels odd, & I get a sick feeling when I think too much about going anywhere with someone that's not my H. I am enjoying going out & being pursued, so at this point, I think I'll just relax & go with it. He seems to be an actual nice guy (I know, I know....CVA has given me the "everyone is in the beginning" talk), & it doesn't hurt that he's my age, handsome & has a yacht in the harbor near me.
The last I heard from my H was that he's still in the same place as he was a year ago. That was a few weeks ago before I stopped going to dinners, etc. with him (with the kids). Since I've made myself unavailable, there does seem to be a change, I just don't have any expectations that it means much, which is a good thing.
He left a VM when he couldn't get a hold of me yesterday, that he's coming over around 1pm today to play w/S5 & that's a 1st. since he usually doesn't show until 6pm or 7pm.
I've been reading some interesting stuff re; affairs & hope to post some of them later, hopefully before the end of the month ;-
