LMG, check out whileweheal.org. I don't know whether I've passed this along to you or not. It's a very good site to keep the kids first.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09