I find that sometimes I get overly attached to my own point of view. I try to relax and find a place where I can give a little w/o losing my identity. If I just say okay - I start to get resentful...
I also try to let the other person have the last word when I realize that my having the last word is nothing more than a pride issue - in other words it does nothing to resolve the issue. This is usually when both sides are just repeating the same argument with a little rephrasing.
AG, this is me also. I stubbornly want the last word. And sometimes I don't want to necessarily commit to something if I'm only agreeing to keep the peace.
Beth, not sure about that...seems that when I'm upset I become clueless about what to do. I guess I'll do yoga.
Me
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
