I didn't mean to say that you were crazy, although we're all a little crazy while we're going through this, but somehow we have to be the ones to minimize the craziness. Believe me, your husband won't do that for you.
I know what you meant hon ))) but I am spinning my wheels a bit, I hate this. And you are right, I won't get compassion from him so I have to be objective and work with this new load of issues the D brings.
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That's great for the kids but it only serves to make these self centered spouses even less accountable.
yes indeed, I did it all since he really didnt' take interest, I couldn't wait to be involved since when I was in school my parents were not that involved, my mom tried a little, now and then she'd check schoolwork, but having her own restaurant she couldnt' do it all the time, and after the D and I lived with my dad no one had an inkling how the hell I was doing in school, after I moved here same thing (US), I'd get the honor roll all the time, no one knew nor asked nor took pride in it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
