((Addie)), just wanted to check on you. Any positives to share yet :)?
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
H came by mid afternoon and appeared to be somewhat distant. The 3 of us went to the driving range for about an hour. He was in an ok mood there, even gave me some pointers and encouragement. Afterwards we came home and did a bunch of cooking together as H wanted. It went well but he was distant throughout the evening. He left me some of the cooking and took some for himself for the week. We had dinner together. He hung around until 10 pm and left. As he was about to leave he thanked me for helping out with the cooking, said he really appreciated it and we both hugged each other - I'm not sure who actually initiated the hug.
Although the day went well, I get really frustrated by his mood flip-flops. He was fine in the morning and then distant by the afternoon.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
Although the day went well, I get really frustrated by his mood flip-flops. He was fine in the morning and then distant by the afternoon.
I hear you, Addie!
After all it's only too normal to get your hopes up after all the positive changes. And the setbacks are esp painful when you start hoping. Dealing with it myself now. In my dreams I was where Yellowrose is - I have such longing for success...
Hold on, Addie, we're going to make it
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
Wow! I'm sure you are getting frustrated. I'm proud of both you addie & stella! I'm so happy that things are going well so far. I know it is hard with the mood swings, but maybe that is a good sign that he might be coming back.
Hang in there my friends!! ((((HUGS TO BOTH OF YOU))))
