Yeah your right Stella. It is time consuming and mentally exhausting to worry about what he thinks and what motivates him.
I called him yesterday but he didn't answer the phone. Sent me a TM that said "can't answer, sorry". He called me today and I didn't answer. He then popped up for a few minutes and asked me. "both phones don't work?" I told him that only one was broken. So he wanted to know why I didn't answer. Told him I didn't get to the phone in time I didn't call back. He said he had needed for me to make an invoice but it was too late now and the guy had left and now we'd have to wait to get paid etc. I told him that he should've called again if it was so important. I'm not about to feel bad for not answering the phone. If it was so important to him he could have called back.
Point of the post is? Why is it that he doesn't have to answer HIS phone but I do?
I'm not sure that NOT answering my phone is going to work well with H. He's a stubborn man. Might end up that he won't answer my calls either. I don't want to get into a stubborn fight of wills over this.
Any advice?
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
