Am I being a martyr and how would I know? Yes, I understand the definition of a martyr. The probelm I'm having, is reconciling my actions (NC) with the perception of "oh, poor me!" I have done alot of "soul searching" during this process and have not always been happy (at times horribly embarassed and ashamed) at what I've found. This one eludes me though. I believe I've gone NC for myself, but something is nagging at me and I cannot put my finger on it. If someone has/had a similar experience and would be willing to share, I'd greatly appreciate it.
