Buddy,

Patrick,

I know how you feel. It's like this guy took your life and left you with this shell.

That's not really the case. He didn't come in and steal her from you. Problems great or small in your marriage over time allowed your wife to wander.

How can you turn the other cheek? Well man, any other course of action, all the dark thoughts and your girls are definately raised by someone else.

With as petty as your W is being right now, any other course of action (physical) with this guy and your toast. Sorry.

Seldom does God test us in ways we would like to be tested. It's not really a test otherwise.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet