Well this really is very telling isn't it? J thinks so little of himself that he'd rather be surrounded by dishonestly than goodness. I imagine a lot of the ex's, whether they realizie it or not, have issues with the way they chose to handle their problems and the kind of people they've chosen to be. Think about it, would you want to live with and have to look the person in the eye that you have done these kinds of things to? Not me. No way, but you do get what you give!
