this is maryangela -- have to start new thread

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Good job NOT looking through the cell phone. I found about my H's EA from looking through his cell phone, too. Cell phones are poison, I hate them.

He is guilty and feeling it. Don't overreact about not ML. Don't even think about it. Hard, yes. My H and I ML last week for the first time in two months, since he got the apartment. For the six months between bomb and separation, our sex life was amazing. Once their heads are screwed up completely, that changes.

My advice has probably been given a ton of times. Try to control the anger, GAL, figure out some 180s you want to do, become a better person. Put his actions, reactions, the nastiness, etc. to the side. Focus on YOU and your daughter. Don't focus on what he's doing to you and your daughter. While these feelings are justified -- and I've been there too -- you can't control it. Control yourself and the life you have with your daughter. One minute, one hour, one day at a time.