Same here Cagz. This point in my life really sucks. I know God will help us though. There will be light at the end of this tunnel.

Ex at least has stopped asking for things in the house... I think. All the things he put on a list he has now forgot about.

I like it better when he just leaves me alone.

I did not book the Disney trip yet. I am thinking I will then change my destination, somewhere exotic, maybe Hawaii. I think my ex is just full of hot air. He had told the kids this winter he was taking them on 3 trips, none ever happened. If he does take my kids to Disney with the OW that would be a total of 6 tickets plus he said he was going to hire a nanny to watch the baby, so a total of 7. That would be a small fortune to Disney. He is flat ass broke... I have no clue how that would be possible. Why are they so delusional????


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11