thanks girls))))))))))))))) I guess it is just one of those things we must learn to accept and much like S,D and other horrors we just have to adjust *SIGH*

bleah, well, at least he does want them around, he's just not that great at keeping d5 clean and comb her hair or at making sure s9 does his homework and stuff, he's late half the time and I just hate the thought of them not taken care of *the way I want them to*. I guess if he's asking for this then he'll have to learn and realize that it isnt' all easy to take care of them for real (he only sees them a few hrs now)

And yes, as they grow up, they will make up their mind, even he said so, once they are 13 they may or may not want to stay with him more/less. Ok, must think of kids first.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.