Sounds like an awesome night! It is so great to see you and H being so comfortable with each other, especially after the misgivings you had leading up to it. And not even a smidgen of him looking for a quick escape route. Sounds like the bar/friends deal was just a preplanned excuse in case things didn't go so well -- but they DID! Congratulations!
Me45 W35 M6 T8 D16 SD11 D0 Dec 07: Bomb July 08: Busted! Thread
Sounds like you had an amazing night last night and that h was putty in your hands! You are so AWESOME!!
I love the 180s at dinner- what a fantastic way of getting H to re-evaluate his perceptions and assumptions about you. I am so going to try ordering different stuff next time I see my H.
It sounds like you are right on top of things and in control. Keep going- I can't wait to see how your sitch develops.
((((W2G))))
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
Great job and you see, everyone was right he didn't ditch you and take off to the bar! Remember to always expect the best (I need to take that advice myself).
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Sounds like you had such a nice evening. So happy for you. You made me smile, I am so happy for you.
Its great when you can just relax and have a nice time, that is not working so well for h and I as of late. It was like pulling teeth to get him into conversation last night over soup. I am getting tired of all this. But, enough about my gloomy outlook, Back to your fabulous evening.
Sounds like you are floating up in the clouds, and for that my friend i am so happy for you, Way to go, W2G.
(hugs) bear
Me 42-Him 40 T20yrs Married 16yrs 2/06 H- "not sure if i want to be married anymore" 6/07 H-"I'm not happy" 9/07 Admits affair & OW 12/08 I moved out 12/09 still waiting for divorce
Hey - You did great & see, he didn't rush off after all! If I get the opportunity, I hope I fare as well. Good luck and it sounds like you'll be having another date soon.
I ask not for a lighter burden, but for broader shoulders ____________________________________________________ M 46 H 45 D 17 M/T 23 Bomb #1 (ILYBNILWY) 12.06 Bomb #2 (OW) 12.07 Bomb #3 (chose OW over M) 9.08
So glad you had a great date! I am hoping to have such a great time myself one day. Not expecting, just hoping! Sounds like you handled everything fabulously as usual!
