I'm going to give her the letter and let her think about it a bit. Then in a few days I'm going to say to her, "do you want to do this nice or do we need the lawyers involved?" If she wants to get the lawyers involved I'm going to tell her that I will be suing on grounds of adultery and she and OM can tell the whole story in court, and I'm going to fight with every penny I have to not pay alimony. Then I'm going to tell her I'm going to go for all the child support I can get since DS15 wants to live with me.
Let her deal with that some.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.