I have spent some time reading your situation and Mo2 views.

A couple of phrases come to mind.

The grass isn't always greener on the otherside but we don't believe it until we experience it.

Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it and some things you really don't want.

Nothing drives us to do things, we choose to do things because we want too! My reaction to your action becomes my action. I am responsible for all of my actions not someone else.

Anger, resentment, and guilt drive us to do terribly foolish things.

I think that making a decision and sticking to it is admirable, avoiding the roller coaster. I do also know that making a decision and realizing and sharing that it wasn't the right one is even more admirable.

Personally the people in this world that impress me the most are not those that don't make mistakes, but rather those that do and admit and try to change their future decisions based on those lessons.

The only people that impress me even more than the aforementioned are those that truely forgive when mistakes occur.

I hope for the best for yourselves and your children. I trust it will come clean in the end.


Married:10 years
D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took
Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!