Feeling now that steps are being made to move forward. I know I am working on the M. I know W is working on the M in her own way. My question is how do I get it to being `we` are working on the M. I guess that will happen after she stops contact with OM. I dont want this to just smooth itself out without being sorted out properly (seeing echos of Lanzo in me now).
I am thinking that as my W is planning to stop work for maternity leave in August, she will plan to cut contact with OM then. As she works with him this make logistical sense. But is not the ideal way.
I am trying to take the advice that people gave to Lanzo, and just go with the flow for now. Things are getting better, so lets see what happens!
Cheers
Steve
Me 27 W 30 M 2yrs/ T 5yrs Expecting our first child Sept 08 warning bomb (has feelings for someone) 21/12/08 I found out about OM (by snooping) 14/1/08 Living together.
