Thanks Puppy. You're pretty close to what I had been thinking about.
I'm also going to add a response to her "friends" comment. Some how I've treated her bad the last couple months so we're not friends because friends don't hurt each other the way I've hurt her! It's simply amazing. I'm not being nice to her because I have a problem with my wife sleeping with a married man. It's just amazing the sense of entitlement waywards have.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.