Why Can't I DB the right way??

[water2moon]

Thank You so much Sg!! I really needed to read this..Sometimes I feel like giving up.I know I'm a stronger person than this and I want to fight for him. Last night I had yet another nightmare that he went to live with the OW.I woke up and told myself that that was NOT the outcome I wanted and I need to change my ways and give the man a chance.I realized that If he wanted her, really wanted her he would not have rushed to be back home the way he did. I even told him to stay in the hotel longer and give it some more thought, even though I knew he was with HER.Found out from a letter she sent him that he left her crying in the parking lot. So I really don't want him to regret his decision to come back home now.I may print out your comment to remind myself I CAN do this..Thank you!!