That's good advice from Alison. I know how hard it is, esp when there's another woman in the picture. I remember my kids coming home to tell me that gf had made them cupcakes, and I was so mad, all I could think of was stuffing cupcakes down her throat till she choked!!
But of course, I know - as you do - that our children need their fathers in their lives. The more people who love them, the better it is for them. This is one of those sucky times that we need to do what's best for them. I know that you already know this; I just want you to know also that we have all been there and all felt the same.
The secret positive side, though, is that in a couple of months, once you get used to it, it really won't be so bad. You will have time to yourself, and it will FLY by - really. And that time alone will make you a better mom when you're with your kids.
You can do this, Cat.
Love, Nicola
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