God give me the patience and the strength...2

[Nutty Chick]

now that i look back over the conversation it's like he was looking in the mirror. because what he was accusing me of is what he is doing to me. so i wonder how much of it was guilt, how much was real

My H does the exact same thing. You cannot reason with him. It is heart breaking and frustrating at the same time. I cope with it by going dark. keeping well out of his way. I do this for my own sake.... damage limitation. The less we say to each other the less we can hurt each other.