Any comments on how I should repsond would be greatly appreciated. I know what I'd like to say, but it probably wouldn't help the situation any.
"(Wife),
I will take no responsibility for your selfish decision to have an affair, nor for telling our children the truth about your actions. This is your mess, and you need to clean it up.
For the record, both of the boys were GRATEFUL that I finally told them the truth. The fact that you were PLANNING to keep on lying to them for at least another two years is simply stunning to me, as we've always taught them that a family always tells the truth.
I do love you, and hope you will come to your senses before it's too late, although I fear that it already is.
