Waywards are stunning, just stunning. DS15 couldn't wait until today, so he told her what he thought last night. He told her that he would never talk to her if she was seeing OM. WW replied "I guess I'll just be a lonely old woman then". It's amazing that she's trying to manipulate him now also. He also told her that she has no right to be mad at me because all I did was tell him the truth, and he was glad I did.
This morning I had a note with my wallet. She thanked me for making her look bad in the kids eyes. She says I'm selfish, all my actions have been my way of controlling her, this has reinforced her reason for leaving the marriage, she wanted to last the final 2 years of DS15's school to give him a complete childhood/upbringing but my selfishness won out and now that's not going to happen. She closed with "we are not friends, friends don't hurt each other the way you have the past few months".
Ok, how do you respond to such crap? I'm selfish and controlling because I have a problem with my wife sleeping with a married man? We're not friends cause I've hurt her this way the last few months? Uh...but it's ok for my wife to sleep with a married man as long as I treat her as a friend?
Any comments on how I should repsond would be greatly appreciated. I know what I'd like to say, but it probably wouldn't help the situation any.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
