Neecy..
I just wanted to stop by.. I totally agree why you did what you did. And why you are feeling how you feel about the situation. I would like to remind you to think about 'what if' situation. It is not because what kind of person your H is. It is because you never know what will happen to him.. you.. The other night, he was drunk (not the excuse for what he did to you), the police stopped him, you were the person to take him home.. If he wasn't drunk, wasn't stopped, you weren't there, what you experienced would not happen. And also HE made the choice under those circumstances. You only helped your situation after his mess. You did great. But please think about how his anger developed int eh short period of the time, the first sign of his behavior ("freaked out and accusing" you for sending police).. If you remember those signs, (IF anything happen again) you can make a choice to remove yourself from the situation. Thinking about you!

Beauty


Me:31 H:29 D:7 S:2
M:7y Together:8y
found out his A :07/07
bomb:11/01/07
s: 11/15/07
OW-1 is out of state; other female friends around
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