The first couple of months of our S when things were really bad between us, H would avoid me. A few times he came over to watch S while I was at a course but left before I arrived so that he wouldn't run into me. Your H may be feeling guilt??? Did he know you'd be out during that time? Maybe he intended to see you but you were out longer than he anticipated and he had to leave for whatever reasons. Just some thoughts.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
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