I understand that you do not want me in California with you, so I have made other plans. You can cancel the airline ticket if you haven't already done so.
I am still looking forward to seeing all the pictures of the kids enjoying the trip.
Have a good day!
I asked DB coach about this and he said "Which would be better? Being on the trip with W when she doesn't want you there, or not being on the trip, and having her miss you..."
This made sense to me, even though it first seams backwards...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712