During the Thursday night R confrontation, W said "I felt like you were going to pull the rug out from under me".
WHAT! Who is pull the rug from under who???? Anyway, I didn't say anything Thursday.
After kids in bed, I ask W what makes you think I would pull the rug out from under you? W said gut feeling and "all the sneaking around". I listened and most of it was the fact I haven't been telling her where I go at night (mostly gym). I pointed out the fact that she had said on multiple occasions that she doesn't care what I am doing. She also said that she "Always" tells me "everything" she is doing. I backslide a little and I got just a little defensive and said "So when I ask about work or other things and get an "OK" for an answer, that is "everything" you did. I left and pleasantly said "Good night" and got a pleasant "good night" back.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
