Honey, you CAN do it. Don't give yourself another option. Give the man credit. ACT AS IF he loves you.
There is a stopsign technique that some people use....if they're visual people. They just envision a stop sign when they are about to do ranting thing.
You must do whatever it takes...because you will not get what you want without it. And you are very likely to have a wonderful wonderful marriage again if you do it.
You have got to forgive him.....to get the marriage you want......and the person you will be helping the most is yourself. JUST DO IT.
JUST DO IT.
I had to learn to control myself too. It took NOT going on about how hard it is. It took doing EVERYTHING ELSE.....and focusing on making myself happy.
Not doing it grudgingly. Throw your whole heart into it.
He'll fall in love with you again.
Back off. Show him you respect his space. You honor him and his needs. You WILL be repaid a hundredfold.
You CAN do it...don't kid yourself...you CAN.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001