i am in your place and it stinks.

i realized this weekend (see my stitch) that i have to file. i have to for me - i have to because FOR ME it is the only way that i will move forward and let go. IT DOESNT mean I want to date it doesn't mean anything other than for me I have to let him go.

As with you - why would he file? My h is living with ow - financials are set --- he says he never wants to marry again...so why should he file?


M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06
Moved out 3/12/07
D final 7/30/2008
finding myself again