Cake eating or progress?

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Trixi, that is awesome that you are trying to work on this. I love the sight of my W naked, and she too has worked on getting more comfortable with it over the years. She is now totally fine with it.

I don't know anything about how your husband thinks, but let me give you my male perspective.

Sure, the sight of a hot, tight, hardbodied female is attractive. And it might be fun to take one out for a test drive.

But I tell my W all the time - even today when we are in this drama - those stretch marks and sagging boobs were caused by love. The love of two people making beautiful children. Stretch marks? I can't get enough of them. They signify character and love. It was a sacrifice my W made to bring our kids into the world.

Funny story:
My W and I never close the door when we pee. So I was at her place the other day, and the bathroom is right beside where I was standing. She sat down to do her thing and shut the door. It jumped out at me like a beacon! I said "hey what are you doing, you don't shut the door!" She said "well in our situation it doesn't seem right". I pushed the door open, she looked up at me and said "well, I guess why change now, eh?"

The door stays open now.

Boundaries!!

I know, probably too much information. But I thought it was cute.