But I think I am headed for another divorce. It will be rocky for TJ, but I will not help him with the D.
I know you know about positive thinking. Think reconciliation instead of divorce. By focussing on the possibility of a D, you could be giving D energy. I know you want to protect yourself from feeling hurt IF things don't go the way you want them to. It's a tendency of mine too. As you know, thoughts become things. Focus more on him changing his mind again... -PH