Small update: I am determined to avoid TJ at all cost. If he calls, it will go to voice mail. If he texts, I will not respond, until the next day, and it will be email. I have taken his ring off my cell phone. I have changed his calls to no ring. This will take some of the pressure off me to answer or not answer the phones.
I have had convo's with all 3 daughters this weekend, and to the best of my ability to acertain, they are clueless about recent turn of events. I count this as positive. He may be still thinking about this. On the off chance that he DID see a counselor last week, if he agrees to continue to see said counselor, or buy into what C is saying about his life......... maybe......
but I know this just gets me in trouble with expectations. I really expect him to call them maybe tonight.
He has not attempted to contact me. He is respecting my request for time to heal. That is a good thing.
Folks, this is not over.
But I think I am headed for another divorce. It will be rocky for TJ, but I will not help him with the D. Game on.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
