I guess because I wanted to know, just like snooping the phone bill or anything else, I have nothing to indicate the H has a physical relationship with her and he left the bar and didn't go home. Now I know he was on his way there becuase of where he got pulled over, I think it was to drive by and stalk her because when I dorve by her house was in total darkness, didn;t look like she was waiting for a visitor. Really who cares now?
Neecy, as you probably know from my other posts, I'm actually a big proponent of snooping, or -- as I prefer to call it -- "intel." But it needs to be part of a larger plan, and used for strategic or tactical purposes. In short, it's used to fill in the blanks, or to verify an agreed-upon "no-contact" plan.
Frankly, there ARE no blanks to be filled in here. Your husband is an open book, and it's a dangerous one. You know EXACTLY what you need to do; when are you going to do it?
