Neecy, I understand what you are saying about the parental bond and wanting your D to have her father there in her day-to-day life.
It is interesting that you say that because I actually was not thinking about D4 at all when I made that statement(maybe I was subconsciously) All I was thinking, (and I have thought this about my mother too who had an affair), my parents have always piled love on me, they have always given me the impression that they beleive I can do anything. I just can't imagine growing up when you don;t even feel love from your parents. As bad as having an A is, my parents would be disappointed in my decision but they would never turn me out. MIL says well I am suprised I never thought he would do this, this is the last thing, but he has always been a*sholish and stubborn, FIL, your son is an a*shole. I am not making any excuses for not kicking him out before he gets up and leaves, I am just sad that this is the life he was given and that it reared its ugly head on me.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009
