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Re: Waltzing alone Matilda2 #1407928 04/03/08 03:45 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 Member
JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	They are right Mat. You will know when the time is right for you to start anew. Ten you can move forward call and go do things with friends and what ever you feel like doing for YOU. (((((hugs)))))) JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Waltzing alone JAK58 #1407948 04/03/08 04:08 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 Member
NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	(((Mat))) Any plans for counseling? I just had to ask! LOL Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: Waltzing alone NNP1965 #1408746 04/04/08 11:35 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 Member
JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	Mat Stopped by to say hi thinking of you. What are your plans for the weekend? JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Waltzing alone JAK58 #1408792 04/04/08 01:12 PM
Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 5,490 Canada P princess_nic Member
princess_nic Member P Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 5,490 Canada	Hi Matilda! Just stopping to say I'm thinking of you. Keep GALing - it will come together. N Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself My thread: Trusting God's Plan

Re: Waltzing alone princess_nic #1410258 04/06/08 05:33 PM
Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 2,196 F FLTC Member
FLTC Member F Joined: Sep 2006 Posts: 2,196	Hi Mattie, Keep your chin up! Just wanted to say hi!

Re: Waltzing alone FLTC #1410348 04/06/08 09:04 PM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 OP Member
OP Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	I jumped another hurdle today! Yesterday D17 and her dad made plans for dinner together tonight. I just found out an hour ago that it is a birthday party for his gf's daughter (who is 25ish I think). I scurried around the house to find a gift that D17 could take (I usually keep a few things on hand) and she made a nice homemade card for her. I have the sense that my daughter is still protecting me....didn't want me to know she was doing something with "the other family". D17 actually thanked me! I also DIDN'T CRY when exH showed up to pick her up!!! Baby steps!!! NNP, I do think counseling would be good for me! Just haven't found the "driveby" version yet. I should hurry and get my free sessions in in case I do find a new job this summer! I have been looking around for divorce care groups, but haven't found anything that works with my schedule that is near by. I have spent so much of my life taking care of exH and D17 that I any having difficulty putting myself at the top of my list!!!!!

Re: Waltzing alone Matilda2 #1412500 04/09/08 12:45 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 Member
JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	Quote: [/quote]I have spent so much of my life taking care of exH and D17 that I any having difficulty putting myself at the top of my list!!!!! [quote] Hear ya there Mat. You did very well with D17. Im sure she is trying to spare your feelings. Finding yourself is going to take time im sure but I know you will do it. JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Waltzing alone JAK58 #1413081 04/09/08 10:45 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 3,103 LA N No_hill_for_a_Swimmer Member
No_hill_for_a_Swimmer Member N Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 3,103 LA	Hi Mattie Well start with yourself on the top for short periods. That way you won't feel guilty about having some fun. Takes a while I did not smile naturally for a couple of years. I'm sure it will take you much less. "All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin

Re: Waltzing alone No_hill_for_a_Swimmer #1414218 04/11/08 12:02 PM
Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV N NNP1965 Member
NNP1965 Member N Joined: Jul 2005 Posts: 2,014 Martinsburg, WV	{{{Mat}}} you must be out GAL... $\:\)$ I hope your are taking good care of yourself. Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011

Re: Waltzing alone NNP1965 #1415156 04/12/08 10:15 AM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 3,103 LA N No_hill_for_a_Swimmer Member
No_hill_for_a_Swimmer Member N Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 3,103 LA	Smile Mattie At least try. Most of us have been there and burnt the TShirt. "All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin

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