and hopefully one day you'll look on her as a friend "with benefits" as well.
It's good that she is trying to communicate what is important to her (i.e HER needs) and that you are such a good (and concerned!) listener. Does she ever ask what YOU need???? I don't have the sense that you ask her for anything.
I love hearing tidbits from all the books you read. I need to find more books like that on cd so I can listen while I drive since I rarely take time to sit down and read for enjoyment.
