Good question, H said he is leaving tonight, I am waiting to see if he does. I didn;t really want to start up anything again if it can go by easily. I had thought all along if he left he would go to his parents. Well he will not even go and talk to them. At first his mother told me he was not welcome there. Further in the conversation and because of my persuasion(I know why did I feel the need to persuade?) she agreed that he could go there but there would be strict rules and he wouldn't like it there. She told me she would have thrown him out on day one and I should throw him out now and if he won't leave get a court order and tell them about last night. When I told her he said he was leaving and coming back on Tuesday to watch d, she said change the locks. Now, I know she is mad, but to me the parental bond is something my H missed out on and is critical in what he has become.
Me~34 H~38 D6.5
EA/PA-DEC.07
Moved out~Apr.13,08 Sep. Papers~Dec.7,08 No contact order ~Dec.9,08 and again October 13, 2009