Yep, I feel your pain, Dave. I get frustrated too.

I actually mentioned this to my W a couple of weeks ago...she said she gets frustrated too - with herself - for not knowing why she feels she needs to do this!

I thanked her for sharing that.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!