This is such a topsy turvy world. Have a great time with your girlfriends!
I'm learning with my new development..
I don't want the marriage I had. I welcome people in my life who respect me. I have a choice.
Those three things are helping me move forward. I'm not living my spouse's life, I'm in mine. Thinking of what he's really doing or might be doing doesn't do nuttin' for me.
The way your husband talks sounds like he can run you in loops like mine can. Just go with what you think is right. If you don't agree, sit down and meet him with an agenda written down, with a table between you. This is only business. Are you to the point where lawyers are involved? Find out what your legal rights are. My lawyer had to send a note to my husband telling him to stop trying to give me litigation strategy.
As much as you DB and give to others, this is ultimately YOUR life, my sweet petite. Go forth and shine with the beauty that is you!
